Instant finalizations

Fix #55 and #56

This may be a breaking change from v2.2 - Instant finalizations solved, but with new configuration values. If you are running an old plugin with this in mind, make sure you check those settings.

Also solves a bunch of other problems:

Partial crediting orders

This is nor an actual breaking change, since the ruleset has always been quite clear: Payment providers do no support partial crediting accodring to early notes. The first plan was to actual make a warning statment of this in the plugin, but it has now been cancelled so we're leaving more responsibility to the API itself for this part.

Race conditions in order status changes

A few weeks ago (from nov 28 2021) an important case was solved that handled order status changes and the priority order where order statuses could be a fight between two different places in the plugin: If the customer lands on the landing page first and changes the order status of the order, this could affect the callback if it was later. If the callback went of before the landing page, that could affect the status too. And if both events occurs exactly the same, there would be a status update war where stock handling if the main actor to be affected where stock is in risk of been drawn twice. RWC-87 below, is one part of this that thanks to the new solution could be cancelled. If there's any need for it again, we have it kept but cancelled.